I have two buns. A boy and a girl- both fixed. We got our boy in June 2024 and a week later we got our girl. We got them when they were babies and spent a lot of time with them. They were already bonded which is why we have 2. Our girl is comfortable with us. She will come and kiss us and doesn’t mind if we pick her up for pets. Occasionally she runs away or doesn’t want to be bothered by us.

Our boy on the other hand.. sigh.. he has his way of showing affection but mainly he is avoidant (except when it comes to feeding or snacks). He does enjoy pets but only when we he wants to (which I can respect hello boundaries!) but I am wondering how long it’s going to take or if they’re ever going to be 100% comfortable.

For those of you with super cuddly buns.. how long did it take?

PS they free roam around the house when we are home with them which is 95% since I work from home.