Long time reader of this sub, first time poster.

I've had a thing for handbags since 2008, when my eldest sister gifted me a beautiful leather bag. I don't remember the brand now, but it was the nicest bag I'd ever owned. I'd just had a traumatic miscarriage - the first of three - and she wanted to help me feel better.

I've loved bags since then and become an avid collector. I got most of my bags at TJMaxx, well-made, high-quality leather bags and I loved every single one. After a while, I was heavily into Brahmin and must have had close to 14-16 Brahmin bags. Then, Tory Burch, again multiple bags, all of which I enjoyed.

In 2021, I discovered high-end designer bags, gave away most of my previous collection, sold a few and added others to my current collection. I still have a few Brahmin (not pictured) which I intend to gift to family.

In 2020, I began working from home and have done so ever since. So, unfortunately, my bags do not get as much use as they would if I still had a daily commute.

After spending two hours yesterday trying to make space for my two new Bayswaters, I realized I have a problem, lol.

At this point, I've chosen not to buy any more bags unless I declutter my collection. Ideally, I would like to get to around 30 or so. But, I'm also raising a teenager who may want some of them. When she turns 18, I'll let her choose a few.

Until either of these events occur, I'll take the advice of someone on this sub who essentially said we can admire bags without buying them. That resonated because I like many things but don't buy them all.

This sub and all the lovely bags, pictures and conversations also help me enjoy bags without feeling like I need to own them all.

Looking back, I wonder if my love for beautiful bags is connected to how loved I felt when my sister gave me that bag in the aftermath of losing the boy who would have been my firstborn.

Just musing and wanted to share.